A Tender Update, New Family Members & A Holiday Offering

Hi loves,

I’ve been a bit quiet this week, and I wanted to share why with softness and care.

My recent New York trip was full of sweetness-new connections, beautiful conversations, and time with someone I love dearly. Shortly after I landed back in Los Angeles, I received a call that she passed away.

she took me to this beautiful place for our last meal

The last week has been heavy, and I am moving through it slowly, with gratitude for the time we shared and space to feel the love and grief that comes with such a loss.

I will be returning to NYC/New Jersey for about 24 hrs 11/18-11/19 to bring home her three pets-my newest four-legged family members. I want to make their transition into my home as gentle and comforting as possible. I’ve updated my Amazon Wishlist with items specifically for them that will help them feel safe and loved.

If you’d like to send something for them, it would mean more than you know.

Wishlist link is on my site & socials.

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Holiday Support Offering

With SNAP benefits paused, many families are facing unimaginable stress this holiday season. I cannot ignore this. I believe in community care, and I have been helped by others in my most difficult times. Now it's my turn to extend that outward.

For November and December, I’ll be offering discounts on rates when you bring a grocery store gift card or a Visa/Mastercard gift card to our time together.

Every single gift card will be donated directly to an outreach program serving women, families, and children in need.

Discount Structure:

$100 gift card → $50 off any session

$150-$300 gift card → $100 off any session

$300+ gift card → $100 off + up to 2 hours social time

Together, we can bring warmth to families who deserve to feel held this winter.

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Current Availability

Los Angeles: I am here, available for both incall & outcall as always.

Thank you for your patience and tenderness while I moved quietly through this transition.

NYC/New Jersey : 11/18–11/19

Pre-booked sessions only. No haircuts this trip.

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Thank you for being part of my world, whether we’ve shared an evening, a memory, or simply breathe in the same constellation of cities.

I hope to see you soon, on one coast or the other.

And I hope we both move gently through the rest of this year.

With warmth, care, and a healing heart,

Tania