Careless Whispers from behind the chair

Hello lovers,

I have so much to share with you as the seasons shift and new adventures approach…

First of all, if you have found yourself asking, "What is the Erotic Barber Experience?" Let me enlighten you:

I want to share this because I know exactly what I do as an "Erotic Barber" can be confusing. It’s rare-almost unheard of, and I’d hate for you to miss just how unique the experience really is.

Being with me is more than an appointment. It’s an immersive experience. Imagine stepping into my world:

You’re greeted with a warm smile, intoxicating eye contact, and the kind of energy that instantly puts you at ease.

My luxury incall feels like a private escape: soft lighting, subtle fragrance in the air, a giant soaking tub for us to enjoy, the sounds of your favorite sexy tunes playing in the background, and the occasional laughter we share.

Maybe we start in my barber’s chair-your beard trimmed, neckline cleaned, hair shaped with precision while my hands linger just a moment too long. You feel cared for, admired, and undeniably desired.

Perhaps you sink into my massage table, where strong yet sensual hands ease every knot in your body. My curves brush against you as I lean close, whispering in your ear, letting you feel how much I enjoy watching you relax under my touch.

Over a glass of wine or champagne, conversation flows easily. You tell me about your passions, I tease you with mine, and the room shifts from playful to electric.

And when we finally cross that threshold, the moment where all the tension melts into pleasure, you discover why I’m known for being both deeply affectionate and deliciously uninhibited.

Whether it’s a tender, lingering kiss or the thrill of me exploring exactly what turns you on most, the experience is about connection, excitement, and freedom.

My focus and goal is always to create a lasting connection and a safe space-a place where we can both dream, be playful, and escape from the sometimes harsh or mundane realities of daily life.

And because what I offer is so rare, I want to be clear: I’ve begun shifting from the name “Erotic Barber” to “The Gentleman’s Barber.” Not because the erotic side has disappeared. It’s still very much alive, but because censorship online makes it harder to share my world openly under the old name. And in truth, my earliest beginnings in this erotic world were in gentlemen’s clubs, where I first learned how much I loved blending and crafting my own sensuality, and companionship. The new name feels like a natural evolution: polished, classy, and still with that delicious undercurrent of decadence and debauchery.

Some leave glowing from the pampering. Some leave weak in the knees from indulgence. Many leave wishing the night would never end. But all leave knowing they’ve shared something real, unforgettable, and uniquely ours.

And because I am a lover of a familiar face, the passion that grows with our regular visits, and my own artistic crafting of your personalized grooming routine, I will be coming up with a "frequent visit" package deal for all of my returning "spa" guests. Stay tuned....

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East Coast Tour: NYC & Philly

I’ll be in New York City October 20-25 (only my second time ever in NYC!) and will spend two days in Philadelphia during that trip. Which two days in Philly? That’s up to you. My schedule depends on your pre-bookings and requests, so please reach out soon to secure your preferred date and time.

I will also have some duo partners available on the East Coast and will announce them before my trip, or feel free to inquire.

I can’t wait to:

Taste a slice of the city’s best pizza

Be shown hidden corners of NYC

Maybe (just maybe) be whisked away on my first ever Chanel shopping trip. A girl can dream, right?

I still have that gorgeous luggage on my wishlist, and if you’d like to make my travels even more special (and more frequent), you know how to make a girl’s heart flutter. This would also make travelling with all the odds and ends I need for my barbering so much easier.

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or

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Looking ahead, I’m planning a return to the PNW, a stop in the Bay Area, possibly a trip to Humboldt, CA, and even contemplating my first trip to the Midwest. If you’d like me in your city, it never hurts to ask.

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New Chapter in the Salon

After almost a month at my new salon position here in California, I finally feel like I’ve found a space that truly suits me. For now, it takes three days of my week (with the possibility of adding a fourth), so my availability is a bit more limited, but also more precious.

School is on pause while I find my rhythm, but it’s still on the horizon. And as some of you know, I’ve also begun working as a support group facilitator for an incredible SW outreach organization, which fills my heart in a completely different way.

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Health & Healing

On October 15 I’ll have my second spinal injection attempt. Fingers crossed for relief. In the meantime, I’ve turned to natural healing: yoga, my foam roller, cardio(you know what the best cardio is), therapeutic massage, and strength training. These habits have changed my body and mind, and I’m grateful for the shift toward caring for myself in the last few years and a new found appreciation and attention to health.

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Reflections & Gratitude

I’m realizing how precious time is. Worrying about what I can’t control? Gone. Instead, I’m embracing gratitude. For every experience, connection, and moment, big or small.

Another gift of getting older? I’m deeply in tune with my own body. I love every curve and soft spot that makes me unique. My desires have evolved, my communication has sharpened, and I’m endlessly fascinated by the spectrum of attraction. Sharing intimacy as part of my health and joy with respectful, loving people feels incredible.

I’ve especially noticed how many younger men have sought me out lately, sometimes saving up for a once-a-year visit. Their excitement and care make our time together so special. I feel seen, appreciated, and blessed.

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A Word on Decency, Safety & Deposits

Lately, I’ve seen an uptick in fantasy bookings and no-shows, which is why I now require deposits and proper screening with no exceptions. Too many times I’ve been left ready and waiting, having blocked off my day and turned down other inquiries, only for someone to disappear, now knowing my location(incall), or sending me on a wild goose chase(outcall) and leaving me with lost $$.

I understand hesitation-believe me, I’ve been on the other side too. Years ago, when I booked a provider with an ex, I was robbed. I’ve also been bait-and-switched. I know the risks go both ways. I am open to discussing alternate screening and deposit methods that feel safe and right for each individual.

Here’s what I want you to know: I would never ruin my reputation or jeopardize your safety and discretion for a deposit-or for anything other than protecting myself from real harm. My reviews are plentiful and speak for themselves. My reputation and your trust are far too valuable to ever risk.

So if you’re unsure, do your research. Ask respectful questions. And if you’re met with rudeness or red flags, trust your instincts and choose the path that’s right for you.

Until We Meet

I hope to see you soon-

whether virtually, across a candlelit dinner table, in my barber chair, on my massage table…

or standing over me while I look up at you…

(or “D. all of the above” ).

With love,

Tania Tonsorial